In love,we say you are mine. Most of us take the word 'mine' too literally so much so that,we think that we own that person which gives rise to possessiveness or/and taking that person for granted.
Now lets burst the bubble.
We are not the owner(Lord/Universe) of that flower,we are just the gardener. Who has been appointed to take care of it and to let the flower blossom. As soon as we rest on our past laurels or hinder the growth of the flower;We are bound to be fired by the owner as we were appointed to do exactly the opposite.And soon will be replaced;keep that in mind while loving someone.
The Gardener can always be replaced if s/he is not doing the expected job :)
Now the question remains what should we derive happiness from ?
The very fact that we were designated to do that job,makes us special and we should derive happiness by guarding the flower by making it blossom and grow in all weathers. Gardener never asks for flowers which s/he helped to grow and protected;Gardener is happy with the growth & well being of flower itself -This is Love :)
If you are ready to do anything (in a good way)to make his/her life better,even if no one (including him/her)knows about it. It is love,according to me. Love is about giving,[Seems like love] is about getting. If you have a feeling of giving then it is love.
Note-Make persons life better also mean helping that person to reach his/her best.
